5 Reasons why men should not provide everything for their girlfriends before marrying them
Playing the good and caring guy has some consequences. Here are reasons why men should not take up some of these roles before marrying their girlfriends....READ ORIGINAL & FULL CONTENT FROM SOURCE |
1. How sure are you that she will marry you.
Doing everything for your girlfriend without the assurance of marrying her, is like planting your crops during dry seasons, you don’t know the out come of your yields. It is important to get an assurance first before taking some roles like sending her to school.
Pay for her school fees when she is already your wife, or even the mother to your children, but if she is just a girlfriend, better save up your money or invest. I have seen cases where men pay for there girlfriends school fees all through college, and after completion, those girls leave them and marry other men instead.
2. You will suffer a heartbreak in the end.
Yes, you will be heartbroken in the end, because all your efforts will seem like nothing in the end. How will you feel when you do everything for your girlfriend out of love, but she sees you as trash in the end. It will really hurt you, and that is why i advice men to better invest or save up their money and efforts.
Just do what a boyfriend must do to a girlfriend, like taking her on dates, or buying gifts for her, but for other major roles/needs, make her your wife first.
3. Be stable first.
Men should be stable first before trying to cater for their girlfriends. Do not hustle to entice your girlfriend, because you will be disappointed when she finds a man who is more stable than you.
Men, a woman who loves will always understand you, she won’t give you pressure, or make do the unbelievable just to make you happy. So, learn to stabilize your life before playing the good guy to your girlfriend.
4. She might take you for granted
That is a weakness we humans have not only women. We never appreciate what other people do or give to us, untill we loose them. You can do everything for your girlfriend, but she will never appreciate you. She will only see your efforts as an obligation that you must fulfill. Women are good at taking their men for granted. So men should be aware that.
5. Women can be canning sometimes
Yes, a woman can pretend to be with as to obtain her goal, and when she fulfils her goal, she will definately send you packing. I have seen many ladies pretending to be in love with men who do minial jobs, like being casual labourers, just to send them to school, and after graduating they ditch these men, claiming that they are not there type.
So, men don’t take up such roles for your girlfriend, unless she is your wife, and even if she is your wife make make sure she is trustworthy. Do not let your efforts, and your hard earn money go to waste. Invest and save wisely, instead of facing dissapointments and heartbreaks from your ungrateful girlfriend.